Is Alcoholics Anonymous a cult? It might be good but it feels weird.
Last weekend I attended an in-person AA meeting which I thought was a little uncomfortable and then today I did an AA meeting through zoom which felt more comfortable and casual.
I grew up in a religious cult, and have trauma from that. So I feel like Im very aware of these things but also very vulnerable to that mindset.
- The phrases and chants
- The notion that you are powerless and need to rely on someone or something else.
- They are welcoming and friendly but almost a bit much. The "join us" thought process scares me.
- For some it is their way or the highway for example "you will never reach sobriety unless you do this"
- There are people who go several times a week who have been sober for over 30+ years. I understand that addiction will always be a constant struggle but I kind of feel like move on with your life!
- The big book. I haven't read much of it but it's essentially their Bible that they live by.
I don't want to diminish the impact it has made in people's lives. I believe that it may be cult-like but is generally a net positive force for good, which is why it isn't criticized as a cult.
Thoughts?