Bisexuals are constantly fetishized and judged, and that shit needs to be stopped like yesterday.

That's all I wanted to say.

Edit: I'm gonna add a little bit of context, even though I don't have to. As an activist, I belive that community and people sticking together is part of what keeps us going. I try to stress on how it's important to come back and vent to the community after any toxic interaction but I faced some resistance from some people because they didn't feel safe. After this post, and after the messages I received, I understand why. I do not appreciate coming here then getting judged again.

Anyway, what led me to write this wasn't my need for "a bunch of people to just say yes to me" as one person here said. It was a comment from my gf's best friend that got me here. This person in a cis man who felt the need to make a move on me and then defend it by saying that he couldn't help himself because my gf and I are always touching each other around him. And that I shouldn't mind it since I'm bi and it's exactly why I'm with my gf to be more appealing to guys, he ends it with saying "and thats okay cause it worked and I'm really into you now".

I don't want any validation or anything, but what I'm asking for is that as queer people we already have to deal with so much fucking bullshit, so let's not direct to each other. I needed to vent, cause if I didn't I probably would've been physically violent to the guy. Like I really need to punch him.

And for people asking why not do something about it, sometimes you need to pick your battles. My energy is better put in grassrooting and community awareness and support than it is fighting with a man who feels entitled to everything.

That's it.