Is arranged marriage thing impossible without dowry?

Hey, I'm 27 F, graduated from a tier 2 engineering college, currently I have good job in some PSU. I was born in bihar but my parents brought me to Delhi when I was just one month old. I did date in past but it didn't end well, now it's kinda right time for me to get married. My only condition from a match is no dowry in any form, and decent job and education. But apparently it's too much I'm asking for. My father said he won't be able to find a match without dowry if guy has good job and education. Not even more than me but even if he's earning same as me and have same education ( graduate), he'll want dowry. I just can't get past someone asking money from me to get married. I wouldn't be able to love the other person if the relation starts like this. They are like bihar mein Bina dahej k shaadi possible nhi hai. Is this really the case?

Edit: I'm against alimony too, as I'm financially capable enough to take care of myself. The purpose of alimony was to protect women who are not financially independent, at least that's what I feel.

I won't inherit any property, because we just have one house. My parents did spend a lot more on my education as compared to my brothers.

Sarkari Naukri wala nhi chahiye mujhe, as such no preference