What to get?

I’m sorry if this is an annoying post to make but I turn 21 really soon and I obviously am planning to go out and get drinks in my birthday however I have no idea what to order that mostly any bar would have because the last thing I want to do is be a bother to a bartender. I am not a fan of whiskey or any dark liquor (fireball is an exception but I’d only drink it in shot form anyways). I like vodka and tequila and I do prefer something on the fruity or sweeter side. I do not love an overwhelming alcohol taste in a drink because if I want to get drunk I would just take shots so I’m looking for something that is bearable to sip on!! I’d love to hear any recommendations for common drinks with the info I’ve given or honestly anyone’s favorite drinks even if it’s not with the liquor I mentioned liking I would be super open to trying anything if someone thinks it would be worth a try!! Thank you!