Who tf do I rave with????

I’m crashing out cause I’m lowkey tired of the people I usually rave with :// Not them as people but them AT the raves. A lot of these people are also my closest friends irl but our tastes/preferences for both the music & the experience are different. I’ve also not enjoyed the experience of repeatedly introducing new people to raving because I’m newer to it myself and trying to learn where I feel most comfortable. In short, do I find new rave friends? Do I rave by myself? Do I just start shamelessly side questing ?? Thoughts ;0