Man why are neurotypicals so aggressive towards people with ASD!

I just made a post over on r/mildlyinfuriating and had to take it down because of the ammount of hate saying I had a low iq and that im a selfish entitled asshole because I was confused as to why ordering off a childs menu in a restaurant was an issue. Just the absolute vileness (Some) neurotypicals can go f**k themselves (the nasty ones) makes me want to scream man. the fuck is wrong with people im made to be the problem. When im just trying to make sense of the world and exist comfortably, like feck ye ignorant bullies! acutally losing faith in humanity they were saying its not their problem to cater to you. I know f**k me like. thats the point