How to win a Gemini man?

Hit it off with this Gemini a couple weeks ago and things got intimate quickly. I’m not looking for a serious relationship and he just wants to be friends as well. He was very sweet, wanted to meet again that week and next weekend. But we sort of had a miscommunication issue that he blamed me for. We went to this brunch that ended up being a club and I really didn’t feel like being there. I had anxiety from the night before and was hungover. Whenever I would take a break from dancing he’d tell me I’m a brat bc I’m making him look like I don’t want to be there. And I didn’t want to be there more than a few hours (we stayed 6hrs). It wasn’t my vibe like i said. Since he picked me up I had no choice but to try and force myself to enjoy it. I started dancing and acting like I was having fun so as not to be a brat.

When we finally leave he tells me later that night that he wanted to leave earlier too…which seems like lying and manipulation. Bc he definitely knew I wanted to go home so why not take me home? Then he told me I make him look bad when I’m not having fun even tho I tried to pretend to have fun bc he’d call me a brat every time i stopped dancing even for a minute.

Two weeks went by and he wants to take me shopping but hasn’t made actual plans. He told me he was going out with the same pple we were with last time but didn’t formally invite me. Should I forget it? It seems like he can’t handle any kind of criticism but loves to dish it. The sex is off the charts tho…that’s why I want him back. Right now he sort of invited me and out then left me on read so I don’t want to text first. What do I do?

🌞 Update🌞: we went out this weekend. He says he didn’t reply because he thought I was already going (his other friends texted me). He also didn’t want to be too clingy and text all the time. The vibe was good but I def won’t get attached to him. Still hasn’t taken me shopping…won’t get any play from me lol.