What’s a placement that is VERY different in real life from how Astrology depicts them?

I’m curious what placements have you personally encountered in real life are VERY different from how they are painted in the astrology community? I’m not just talking one instance, but consistent differences?

I have to say, reading online about how Scorpio moons are “too intense”, emotionally cold, and “closed off” gave me an image of Scorpio moons that is NOTHING like my experience in real life.

Usually I’ll meet someone and I’ll INSTANTLY click with them; it starts as intense eye contact (even platonically) that pulls me in to want to befriend them. But the eye contact isn’t “scary”, if anything it’s inviting?? And when I approach the person to talk to them, they’ll seem super passionate, deep, open-minded, but also WARM . Aka they are very receptive & accepting of me & I am the same for them. I’ll usually guess the person to have some other type of water placements, or perhaps even Leo with the warmth, but NO. It’s ALWAYS a Scorpio Moon I have this type of connection with. I can smell them from a mile away. Whenever I reflect on their behavior, they tend to be observers. But when approached, they are so warm? (Scorpio moons, if you’re reading this, I’d love to know what you think when engaging with people you enjoy).

Everything I read online says that the Scorpio moon would not put up with my Leo moon, they’d be closed off to me, but experience has shown that they are the #1 most accepting person of me & they are the most warm/open to me. Even with my Scorpio Venus & Mars (which perhaps plays a role in this dynamic….) they just seem DIFFERENT from how the astrology community usually paints them.

So I’m curious: what placements do you find are VERY different in real life from how the astrology community portrays them?