Anyone else feeling lonely in Vancouver?

I have been living here for my entire life (20 years) and I left Highschool about 2 years ago. Honestly I don't hangout with many people, a lot of my friends moved away and I ended up on bad terms with a few of them. Since then I would occasionally go out and have some fun, but for the most part I end up just staying at home or hanging out with my girlfriend, which isn't all bad, but I am really interested in saving my money and moving out of Vancouver.

I am not considered rude either, like I ask more about people than myself, I learned to talk a lot less, be more open-minded, funny (in some ways) and overall worked on being less boring, but idk what is is.

It's hard to make friends as people my age are either very rude or will be polite but want to be left alone, even though I try to put in an effort to meet people, for example going to clubs, gyms, social groups, events, etc. Nothing however worked.

I get it that its not cheap and your exhausted when you leave work and don't want to socialize, but honestly this is driving me crazy, and I feel like I am detaching from society. I am currently in school and have a part time job, where I have tried to make friends, but nothing has worked. If anyone has any recommendation's on where to move to where you can make friends, let me know. Thank you :)