Does your top not cumming during sex bother you?

So im the top in my relationship and things are going pretty good between my boyfriend and I, but im worried that my inability to cum during sex might fuck things up. He gets off every time so no issue there but between condoms, that I insist we use, lost sensitivity in my dick, and ADHD I find it very hard to cum. The sex is good and I’m definitely turned on but for all those reasons I just can’t cum during sex and prefer to play it solo. It’s not an issue for me I can take care of myself as needed but I’m worried it might affect him and make him feel inadequate? Thoughts, suggestions, advice please and thank you.