Dating sucks and hurts.

I matched with a guy on Tinder a few weeks ago, and we started messaging each other and I thought we got along well. We finally agreed to go on a date and decided to get coffee. We had a really good time and talked a lot. I thought he felt the same, but apparently not, because he ghosted me right after the date. I told him it was fine to let me know if he didn’t enjoy the date because I’d rather know than be left in the dark but he still ghosted me. Why can’t we be a bit more thoughtful? Getting ghosted after a date is something that sticks with you for a long time. Please just let us know if you’re not interested; we’d rather hear it than be left hanging.