Did You Become More Sex-Repulsed Over Time?

It took a couple of decades, but I think I became sex-repulsed, with terrible timing, when I was just getting together with the person I later married and long before I understood I was ace.

Before this relationship I wasn't sex-repulsed. I had relationships, had sex, was (maybe) sex-favourable or at least sex-indifferent for years. Perhaps I overrode something in myself too often and finally I couldn't take it any more.

I wonder if anyone else feels like their dial moved as time went by.

Maybe it's important for younger aces to know this can happen. Or maybe not. Perhaps I'm an outlier.

I would really like to hear your experiences or be pointed to any research or writing on this.