Reasonable ba na ganto ang dealbreaker ko?

Problem/Goal: My partner I had a date and he asked me bago matapos ang araw na.. "Do you want to have fun (sex)?"

Sobrang naiinis ako kasi I already told him almost a month ago na ayaw ko muna sana 3 mos muna dapat walang sex. Kasi it feels like his efforts we're transactional parang nafefeel ko na sex lang gusto nya that's why he's giving efforts. Yun ang reason why wala muna 3 mos, abstinence muna.

Then all of a sudden e ayan? Wala pang 1 month inask nya na ko agad?

Grabe I feel like it's too much na talaga. Iniisip ko mababaw ba to kung gawin ko tong deal breaker?

Di nya ko nirespeto. Sabi ko 3 mos, then agad agad yaya na? Grabe.