My bf (19) is unemployed, doesn’t go to school and stays in the computer shop 24/7

I’ll make kwento about this in the clearest way possible so pls bear with me.

Me and my bf are already in a relationship for a year now. We are not in a ldr relationship so we see each other often. Everytime we see each other, me lahat nag papay ng expenses. Umaabot ng 1.5k-2k yung nagagastos ko everytime na nagkikita kami. I came from a “not so rich family pero may kaya” and he came from a “walang wala family” so i obtain this money na pang date namin by saving up my allowances. Let’s say we see each other twice a week.

My bf doesn’t go to school na and he doesn’t work, sabi nya hinihintay nya daw na mag 21 sya before sya mag work kasi at his age, “dapat nag eenjoy lang ng life” I met him when he was a graduating grade 12 student pero after that, nag stop na sya. Ever since then, naging tambay nalang sya and since nung napa renovate yung computer shop sa kanto nila, he stays and plays there umaga hangang gabi. His reason? Kasi raw mainit sakanila. He doesn’t even have money to play pero sometimes may na coconvince sya to pay for him and sometimes nangungutang sya.

Idk what to feel. He treats me soooo good, hindi sya nag checheat, princess treatment, all and all.. but i really feel like na okay lang na ganon nalang sya kasi “nandito naman ako”. I keep on motivating him to work pero hinihintay nya daw right age and kung mag school naman daw sya, lolokohin nya lang. Idk what to do, I’m scared na baka di ko kaya pag nawala sya but i really don’t think i deserve this lol