My husband blames me

Long story short. I went out for my birthday a couple weeks ago where I somehow got black out drunk after 2 drinks. And in that time I apparently willingly went back to an apartment where three men had their way with me and I contracted herpes and gonorreah. I spent the last 4 days in the hospital fighting the infection that made me septic. This is nothing I would have ever agreed to. I was told by my friend, who was there for the whole thing, that I initiated and participated willingly the entire time. I just can’t see myself consenting to something like that and I still don’t remember any of it. I did a rape kit and filed a report. The police officer won’t return any of my calls. And my husband blames me for all of it. He’s accusing me of cheating and wants me to take accountability for my actions to fix this. But I’m getting mixed messages from everyone and it just doesn’t feel right for me to take accountability for this because I did not make the conscious decision to do this. Or did I ? I don’t know what to think. Please help.

Edit: thank you all for the kindness, validation and empathy. It is truly building me up and giving me the courage I need to advocate for myself.

Update: Now that he knows I’m officially done he’s “open to different perspectives”. Funny how they change their tune when they realize they’ve fucked up