Where to meet other 20s queer people?

Looking to find clubs, cafés, bars, whatever where the 2SLGBTQ+ people hang out because I'm new-ish to the city and need some friends.

I tried Club 200 but I had a very bad time there last time I went (Halloween and a large man in a mushroom costume threatened to kill me for getting in the taxi that I ordered, plus someone smoking crack in the entrance).

I've heard about Club Happenings, but their website doesn't seem to get updated so I'm never sure what's going on there.

What places are where the queer friendly people hang out?