Why the fuck are songs so sexualized???

I do not get it, why are songs so sexualized, I would absolutely love many songs because of the rhythm and melody if they were not full of sexual context, it is gross and makes me want to cringe in second-hand embarrassment

I tried to have an open heart and give the songs a listen to, but I could not make it a whole day without deleting them from my playlist

I just do not get why people listen to that shit, the rhythm in the songs are amazing but the lyrics make me so uncomfortable