My husband is a lazy father

I’m just so tired of my husband lately with helping me with my 10 month baby.

I’m a SAHM and my husband works part time. I cook, clean, and watch the baby most of the time. The only time I ask my husband to watch the baby is when I’m cooking or cleaning. However I get so stressed because he’s always on his phone playing games while my baby is crying constantly. I keep reminding him to do some activity or play with our baby but he ignores it.

Yesterday while I was cooking he was laying down playing games while my baby was bawling her eyes out next to him. I continued to ask my husband to soothe her but he ignored me. He then loses his temper and yells “ I can’t do this anymore” and throws her toy down and walks away. He says she’s too much to handle and is upset with our baby the rest of the day not even smiling at her once and ignoring her. I thought that was very immature of him and he’s acting like his love is conditional.

I told my husband he needs to help me so I can take care of the house and cook. He says I suck at housework anyways but honestly I can’t finish the job since my baby is always crying and my husband is usually playing games or fallen asleep next to her. My husband does his part in housework like taking out the trash but I wish he would give me time to do the rest.

On usual days my husband always takes naps while I’m taking care of the baby. I have never taken a nap once nor do I sleep well at night since I co sleep with my baby and she wakes up every hour because of teething.

I’m just so tired and feel like a married single mom right now. I make great meals for my husband and make sure he’s well rested for work but I wish he would just take care of our baby well while I’m doing the housework