How to make UX Design sound more authentic?

Hi everyone! Venting here… I’m a baby designer. Graduated last year from bootcamp, and have worked for a couple of non-profits to gain some experience. I love helping others improve their existing products and processes.

Though there’s one thing that doesn’t sit well with me in this industry. Why do designers try to sound so painfully smart? Why do we insist on using big words and terminology that makes it hard to connect with others who aren’t in design?

I feel like most in UX around me are so pretentious. I wish there was a more authentic way to be a credible designer and a more relaxed way of connecting with others.

I don’t want those traits to become part of me. Are they necessary to thrive here? Do you feel the same? What has worked for you?