Mumfluencers... Are they trustworthy?

Hello, long time lurker,first time poster.

I have a 7 months old and since getting pregnant my insta feed is just flooded with mummy content. Before actually having a baby, all the content seemed to make sense. Since my LO arrived, all the content seems ridiculous. Did anyone else feel this?

I feel like I'm stuck between my pediatrician, my mum, and Instagram. And I'm starting to question why I'm listening to this first time mum on Instagram more than my own mind? Where does that validation come from? I end my day doom scrolling (bad habit, i know) and feeling like I'm completely behind and doing everything wrong...