Starlight is so annoying in season 3

Am I the only one who found starlight really annoying after season 2? It got better in season 4 (until the final) but in season 3 she was absolutely terrible.

Like, she keeps making stupid decisions, and when people tell her “hey don’t do this thing. That stupid” she calls them sexists.

Like, agreeing to become co captain- pretty much everyone told her that this is insane and her response? “Is it because I'm a woman? Nobody cares when a man goes up the ladder” like, bitch WHAT?! It’s not about you being a woman, it's about you intentionally stepping on the toes of an unstable maniac. Why the hell are you surprised that everything went wrong? 

Like I don’t get it, you expected Stan Edgar to protect you? Stan wouldn't do shit and you're supposed to know it by now. He was using her to better their public image and to punish Homelander, he doesn't actually give a shit about her.

And most importantly: she treats Hughie like shit this whole season, saying she doesn't need protection while she keeps trying to protect him. I generally hate how the show acts like Hughie’s trauma is toxic masculinity. Is it unbelievable that with all the shit that is going on he wants to feel like he has some control over his life? But instead of being understanding and going through this together she does… whatever the fuck that was.