my hate for Elizabeth is becoming unhealthy

I need to know if i'm the only one that wants to strangle her every time she opens her mouth. Im rewatching got to one the most irritating episode of all time (S3E18) when i watched Elizabeth kick Reddington out of the surgery room he easily spent a million dollars on with the best doctors as well as setting up armed guards watching for a 6 block radius and also saving her life from a team of mercenaries trying to abduct her. she gets told she's on the way to safe place to go into labour and freaks out that it's at a "dirty warehouse" and she let some "sociopath" into her life... this "sociopath" has helped her and her team easily save millions of lives especially if you're counting how bad the plague episode could've gone without his help, which is also another one of the countless times he's saved her life but she seems to always easily allow that to slip her braindead little mind. how many times does this guy need to save her life and go above and beyond for her until she can stop being such a child? i can count a few dozen times where i've wanted to shoot my tv looking at her annoying face talk, she killed the attorney general and this guy did above and beyond gangster shit to save her, i can probably write a 3 page essay pointing out the countless times this guy has gone to the moon and back for her but elizabeth is willing to dedicate herself to send him to prison where he's almost executed. Another episode that made me lose it was where she helped townsends right hand man escape and kill one of reddingtons guards, just for reddington to save her life again. she's willing to team up with townsend and watch him get tortured i really have no idea why she survives so long, im not the biggest fan of the lawyer gerrard but i completely agree with him on the fact that elizabeth is completely unworthy of being given any part of the business, reddington should've given her a slow and miserable death in one of the first few seasons. look at the pictures of reddington being so happy for her baby and her being an ungrateful piece of garbage, the writers confuse me did they think people were gonna like her? maybe some extreme feminists might but anyone else with any sense would hate her