Attention Elder Siblings!
Elder siblings are those who would say that they need no one, but at the end, they need someone who cares for them in smallest way possible, they want someone with whom they can switch off their brain for a while.
Are you an Elder sibling too? Congratulations! Unwillingly you have signed to become the therapist of your family, the frustration dumping person of your family.
No matter how hard you will try, your parents will never be proud of you. It will be you who has to take care of them along with your sibling. You will receive all the trauma but you know what?
You are stronger and brave. Unknowingly you try to save your sibling from the trauma you received as a child. Unknowingly you try to make sure your younger sibling's dreams are not broken unlike yours.
As time passes, you watch how the things you were once beaten/shouted for are now not an issue for your younger sibling. Your parents will never trust you, and if you are a girl, they will even check your phones!
They are someone who have swore once in their life that they will never become the type of parents they have witnessed for themselves.
Soooo, take a deep breath, close your ears, focus on your goal and come out as a better person, not for your parents, but for yourself ✨️