Post Threesome Blues (NEED ADVICE)

Me (25 F) and my fiancé (25 M) have been together for 5 years. We have always talked about exploring a threesome; neither of us had experience in this department. It’s something both of us wanted. I am bi, but never experienced being with a women. Well after years of talking about it, it finally happened. It was amazing! I loved every second of it and so did he.

However, it’s a couple days later and I am depressed/sad and I can’t pinpoint why. I’m not jealous, I never felt left out, and I don’t have feelings for the third (we just met her).

I told my fiancé about my feelings and now he doesn’t want to have a threesome again because he doesn’t want to damage our relationship. However, that’s not what I want. I just wanted more aftercare/reassurance but he’s not understanding that.

Are these feelings normal? Why am I feeling this way? How do I manage these feelings? Should we stop having threesomes? Plz help!

UPDATE: Thanks everybody for the advice and reassurance that this is a normal feeling. We’ve decided to continue seeing our third and are working on making a new aftercare plan. 🙂