1st Timers - Pandora Tomorrow

I'm 50 in Jan, my boyfriend is 61. We've always had a brilliant sex life and love talking all things dirty, especially swinging and dogging / voyeurism.

We're taking it a step further tomorrow night at out first swingers club - Pandora in Leeds.

I'm pretty confident, as is my bf but I'm sure nerves will probably kick in nearer the time. Not putting pressure on ourselves and, tbh, my main fantasy centres on guys wanking over me as I masturbate or have sex with my man.

Both also said we'll stay together and not do anything we both aren't happy with. We are both open to meeting females or couples though.

Any other advice from those with experience who remember their first / early times? We've thought about it for years and really want it to be good and the first trips of many.. Whilst I prefer generally to be spontaneous and just to go with the flow, it'll make me feel more settled and enjoy tomorrow 😉