What happens when a psychic reading conflicts with your manifestations?

Okay to anyone who is spiritually inclined and believes in psychic energy, I have a bit of a dilemma. So I’m conflicted between the use of subliminals determining our fates/futures and what might have been said within a psychic reading. I’ve seen this psychic a few times and I can say she’s usually very accurate, and she said something which conflicts with what I want to manifest. She said that my life partner will be dark haired and stated a bunch of other characteristics and she says to not trust a blonde haired man who’ll come into my life, but the problem is is that my type is blonde guys and that’s who I’d like to manifest as my SP lol. Now I’m concerned that anyone in trying to manifest will betray me and whether my results for manifesting is more or less accurate than a psychic.