does anyone else struggle with attracting attractive male partners?

i’m a bi trans woman that has been on hrt for over 5 years, and i struggle with finding a male partner that i personally find attractive. it probably has to do with the fact that i currently live in a small town, where the majority of people my age (i’m 23) move out for school, work, etc. but i notice that a lot of the men that like me on dating apps don’t put much effort into their appearance and as shallow as it sounds it does a number on my self esteem, lol.