Server girlies give me your best tools for success (that I can get from Amazon easily) please

Best aprons, lip balm, deodorant (lol), server books, shoes, pens, hair clips, makeup, pants/jeans, undies, ANYTHING you swear by that keeps you comfy, organized, confident, etc. :)

I have sensory issues with clothing BUT I also like to look good, and from my experience your appearance makes a big difference in tips. My first serving job I felt so dang fidgety and uncomfortable during long shifts with the strict uniform requirements, belt, baggy shirt, too stiff apron, etc. Really like my new spot and want to absolutely kill it.