Help me decide

Hi guys, recently i've been trying some RSPS and i really liked SoulPlay and Elkoy, the thing on Soulplay that i like the most is the playerbase (350+) and some unique features, and from elkoy i like the ironman mode, i know soulplay has it aswell, but the xp rate is so damn low idk i could handle it, and standard accounts in private servers i find them kinda boring cuz u can buy everything from other people, in your perspective what are some pros and cons of those 2? if u played them.

PS: don't mention Alora cuz i'm banned from it