Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.

Why I brought this up:

When mommy says “Being nice makes a girl like you” she did not mean, “Be nice and females will drop their panties, then beg you for sex”.

When you ask “What do women like in a man” it should NOT be code for “What do women find sexy and who would they fuck?”

Women are not lying just because guys assumed wrong and have different priorities. When women talk about what they want and like, theyre generally gonna talk about relationships. Despite what so many men here believe there is much more to a relationship than just sex and looks. You have to actually bond in nonsexual ways. Unless its a hookup, women generally dont want to be around guys who think with their dicks all the time nor is the only good thing about him is dick.

“But assholes get relationships.”

Like I have said before, the women are terrible, traumatized, mentally ill, or superficial. These are not the relationships normal people want.

Wouldnt you want to be with someone whose company you enjoy with their clothes on? Someone who isnt a headache? Someone you connect well with? Someone who doesnt constantly stress you out? I would imagine those qualities are quite important.

I really think this subreddit underestimates how important it is to be likable to others, especially when you expect people around you long term. “Looks are important” yadda yadda, but what is there beyond the bare minimum looks threshold? Unless youre a 10/10 and just desire shallow people, looks can only get you so far. And if youre talking about platonic relationships, looks matter way less.