Thinking positively is the worst thing

I am sure that everyone reading this had felt once that they shouldn’t have thought positively in their lives , because every time you convince yourself with positivity , you end up shocked in such situations when the plan fails . What I think is that your life should take the negative path always so as to avoid that shock when your plans fail and if it succeed you will get ( I call it )an extra happiness over that positivity . So what do you think ? Found this helpful?