Doctors of r/ph: do you usually make unnecessary comments to/about your patients?

A friend just gave birth - at home. I know this is unbelievable but she did not know she was pregnant. She had her monthly periods, no morning sickness, no cravings and did not feel the baby moving, etc.

Anyway, she got admitted in the ER and a doctor commented that maybe the reason why she gave birth at home is because the child is not her bf’s in a very condescending manner. What?

Yes, my friend’s fault for not being able to tell that she is pregnant. But no one deserves to hear that let a alone a woman who just had a traumatizing experience.

Do you experience this too? Should my friend file a complaint?

Note: both baby and mother is fine.