Is Remington abusive?

I want to preface this by saying I don't like to make this post, but I recently stumbled across this Twitter thread (TW for self-harm and physical/emotional abuse if you click on it) and there's information in it that's upsetting to me and I am surprised I haven't heard anyone talking about it. If it's true, it would mean Remington is not the person he appears to be. I am making this post because I think it is important fans know about his behavior and I would not be making this post if there were not some degree of credibility to the evidence.

For context, a lot of the evidence in this thread is (presumably) screenshots of text messages between him and his ex-girlfriend (I think Kaylen). Yes, I know Kaylen is disliked and there was a boatload of controversial things about her, but these messages seem to imply he was not the sole victim of the relationship. It's hard to confirm if these messages are real, and I wanted to believe they weren't, but the photos of his hand and the broken things in Kaylen's house lead me to believe they might be true. Those are his tattoos, and I don't think it would be easy to photoshop tattoos from that angle...

There is some other information in the thread regarding Emerson and the band in general that is disappointing but I don't give it as much credibility as the stuff about Remington. I don't doubt the band will ever stop treating their fans with respect and kindness but I think it is important the record is set straight and fans know what they are getting into. I am saddened to see this information reveal itself but I would much rather know the truth about Remington than choose to ignore it.