Meltdowns: is your partner supportive?

I’ve gotten a lot better at meltdowns. They are not as traumatic as the used to be, thanks to a combination of knowledge and drugs. But I still get upset about once a month to the point of crying.

Question for you all is:

How does your partner support you through this, or do all men just want nothing to do with it?

My husband literally hates it if I directly or indirectly ask for emotional support. He is not interested in trying to comfort me or cheer me up or anything, and seems to be very threatened that I would even ask.

I just want to know what everyone else out there is experiencing.. are all men like this? Or any advice? I’ve got a few tools for cheering myself up in these situations but could use some tips if anyone has any?

Thanks 🌻