Update: I messed up further
I don't think anyone cares but a bunch of people did blast me so they'll enjoy watching me get verbally demolished.
Previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/OffMyChestIndia/s/pkc5EsygUg
Despite all the rage from redditors, i somehow decided to message her dad in the evening .It was basic, I think I was polite enough. I'm copy pasting it :
"Good evening sir, XYZ this side. How are you and ma'am? Hope you are well and so is ABC (ex fiancee). I won't take up too much of your time , I know you won't appreciate hearing from me but I have to apologise. I regret the way I broke things of with your daughter and your family. Recent events regarding your ex son in law have placed things in perspective for me and i can do nothing more than apologise. I am truly sorry. ABC won't speak to me but I hope you can convey my apologies to her too, I would appreciate it. Good night ."
Result: she unblocked me on WhatsApp, pretty much chewed me out and spat me away (I've been blocked again). Her anger is understandable- turns out her father's health has deteriorated this past year (he had issues for a while but it's been getting worse). I'm Posting her response too so you all can laugh at my expense:
"WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?! YOU MESSAGED MY FATHER? Seriously! I don't want anything to do with you, stay the fuck away from me . Stop messaging my best friend, stop messaging my dad and take a hike. Your apologies mean nothing to me, bhaag yahan se , we don't need this shit. You wanna pacify your guilt, don't. Keep it to yourself and rot away asshole. Stay away from my family, you try to speak to any of them again and I'll make sure you regret it. "
I've turned a sweet girl into this angry person . Posting this here because I'm sure people will enjoy seeing me getting cussed out.