how do people make dating seem so easy?

kasaile padhe napadhe just a rant

jaslai sodhe ni everyone has been in a relationship. i m surprised when they tell me they are dating/have dated and THEY are even MORE surprised that i have barely liked any guy for the past 19yrs. How do u even meet people? aba school ra college ma koi man naparepaxi ka khojne lol. I m an introvert, i don't go clubbing or have guy friends. aba tyo ali ali social event ma pani kasle nai approach garxa ra. and now the last opt is meeting someone online which is so superficial to me. socmed ma one can easily fake personality and sht plus manxe kasto ho determine garna ni garo hunxa. i hve talked to few guys online, barely anyone good. but there was a guy (aba yo whole diff story ho but anyways) i talked to online for 3 months ani he was the 1st person that i geniunely liked and vibed with. my feelings went from 0 at the beginning to actually liking him. long distance thiyo, thaha thiyo it was not gonna work out and obv it din't. esso sochda maybe if we had the same convo and spent time irl the situation would hve turned out completely diff. mai paila confess gardinthiye hola even if he made the move first.

everything aside, i actually wanna meet someone face to face. then spend time and like them. an actual convo where you're just talking and smiling with eachother, having a good time. i have never even held a guy's hand and when people describe me the feeling of being in love/ in a relationship i just feel like its never going to happen me. atp i feel so single ki i m ready to approach a guy myself tara approach garna lai koi mannai pardaina lmao.

situation herda ta paxi gayera arrange marriage jindabad garnu parla jasto xa. aba bhanlan 19 is still young, tara aaile samma nabhaye paxi it starts feeling like its never happening dherai tadha ko kura jasto dekhna thalxa.