My mom said I'll never be a real woman

For some context I told my mom I would be starting hormones and she was worried for be but supportive(this was about 5 months ago) and just today my hormones got brought up.. and she said, "I think your making a mistake and your gonna regret it" that.. really.. hurt.. and then she said "you know you'll never look like a real woman and when you get to a certain point people are gonna treat you different" as if im always gonna be seen as trans and at that point things I'm gonna regret it.. I feel like I need to tell her that it's this or nothing, I might just have to pull the would you rather have an alive daughter or a dead son card... it just hurts..