Man this lowkey stung pretty bad

I was talking to my Mom about how at work a lady i rung up was telling me how she thought i was a girl at first when she was walking up and my mom immedietly went "well your a terribly ugly girl then" and i was like "what the heck mom" and she was like "your a handsome young man but you'd be a very ugly woman" and at this moment i still dont know if im even actually full on transfem but lately ive been rebuilding my confidence in my feminimity and that kinda squashed that. Bummer ig but its a little funny.