Does this look okay?

Hi, I have several questions and was hoping you guys could help!

In the first pic, the bottom of the petiole is dark brown. I looked this up before and people have said it’s normal, but mine seems darker than the other pics I’ve seen and my plant app told me it was root rot… so just want to confirm it’s okay!

Second pic is just to see if I am attaching it to the moss pole correctly. I know only stems are supposed to be attached and not petioles, but I’m not 100% sure I identified correctly the petiole vs the stem. Does it look right?

Third pic is just a pic of the overall plant. I feel like the monstera is not growing and it seems droopy. I water it by feel and keep it next to a west facing window. Do you have any advice?

Thanks in advance :)