I became invisible for men since becoming a mom
I (30F) am happily married with my husband, we are together for 7 years. Our son is 17 months old & I love him to death.
Nevertheless I noticed that I became kind of invisible for men when I’m outside. We live in a big city, so we see lots of different people everyday. And before giving birth, I often noticed men looking at me. I really don’t want to sound arrogant or bigheaded, I know I’m a average looking woman, but still - other men noticed me.
And well, not anymore. I’m invisible. Don’t get me wrong, it has its advantages. But it also makes me kinda sad. Am I no longer attractive? Will I be invisible for the rest of my life? I guess I will get used to it eventually
Edit: let’s be clear, to me there is a difference between „getting hit on“ and „someone being aware of my existence“. And I didn’t mention anywhere that I want to be hit on, so some of you need to calm down 🙂