I want to smack my husband when he's "sick"

Literally he has a cough and a runny nose and he is behaving like he's dying. He cannot change a diaper or refill kiddos milk. He snaps at me when I bring him Tylenol instead of ibuprofen. I have been sick in the 3 years kiddo has been here and I have NEVER been able to lay in bed. And I mean NEVER. I had a miscarriage and was expected to carry on as normal, I made every meal and did everything I usually do. This freaking guy has a cold and he's incapacitated. Yes it's not his fault he's sick but this is bothering me to my core. Vent over.