fun bars for people in their 20’s

hi everyone! My boyfriend just turned 21 yesterday and I am on the hunt for a fun bar for us to go to together. We’ve always talked about going to a club and dancing with each other and acting as if we don’t know each other for fun lol. Now that he’s 21 we can actually do that. i’ve never gone to a club, I am turning 22 next month and the club has never been my scene. I’m a stay at home watch Netflix and read a book kind of girl but now that he’s 21 we wanted to try it out together. I’m open to anywhere honestly, I definitely want to go and explore the Bay Area for some nice bars or clubs, but I’d like to start local since that’s the most affordable for us right now. So if any of you have any suggestions or recommendations for fun bars or clubs for kids our age please shoot them my way! thanks!