MY doesn't recognize my grip

Update: I got put in FSD timeout on the 20th. Why hasn’t it turned back on yet?

I have really small hands, and they don't wrap all the way around the steering wheel, particularly at the top where those bumps are at 10 and 2.

And I guess I don't grip the steering wheel very tightly, because often when I get the "apply turning pressure" notice, my hands ARE on the wheel.

This is especially annoying because I get disengements from it. I called customer service about it yesterday after I got put in FSD timeout. His only suggestion was that I call the service center and see if they can recalibrate the steering wheel, but he wasn't sure if that's possible.

So my question to y'all is, does anyone else deal with this, and if yes, have you found a solution? CAN the steering wheel be calibrated to your specific grip?