My husband called me fat.

Marijuana is legal where I live. My husband smokes often and I don’t really mind, except for the fact that we have two young kids and I don’t want them to be around the smoke. I also don’t want them to think that smoking is a good thing to do necessarily.

My husband steps outside to smoke but a lot of times the smell seeps back in. I have mentioned it before and he has essentially told me that he thought I was lying about it. The other day, some people came by and mentioned the smell. I told him, “see it does smell. Please walk further outside to do it.”

He blew up on me and attacked me for being unhealthy too. Told me that since I am overweight I am a bad influence in the kids.

Over the course of several days we argued in many different ways. He’s still doubling down and he did call me fat. Trying to equate his smoking with my overeating.

I just needed to vent.