Sex

My husband (33) and I (33) have been together since we were 18. I have never had a I’m horny bone in my body. I have PCOS & endometriosis so sex has always been very painful for me. In the last 6 months I have become very horny like I wanna have sex multiple times a week and now my husband is less interested in having sex. He said he’s just not that into sex anymore… he also said he’s stopped watching porn because it makes him feel guilty. It’s almost like we switched bodies. I’m wanting a more spicy sex life. It’s very vanilla. Is this normal for men to loose interest in sex or want less sex? Is this a me issue?

We’re also busy parents of young kids and he an engineer so his work is demanding. So stress does play a bit into it I’m sure.

I guess I’m just looking for advice or similar situations and what helped your marriage.