I ruined my husbands birthday…

I know I am completely wrong for it but is there anyway I can fix it or what is done is done :/?

Here’s what happened, we first woke up things were nice then he made a phone call with his mom and something was said that made me really angry. So We live right next to his family, they’re great and everything but ever since we’ve been married (6 months) she always cooks for us and expects me to go everyday to her house and ‘help’ her and I am just fed up with it! I want to be in my own house cooking for us and just living in our house as a married couple without feeling obliged to go over her house everyday and help her. I might sound rude but I am just fed up with hearing her give me instructions on how to cook this and how to cook that!

So on the phone call she told him if I am not doing anything I could go and help her cook and learn from her. That’s when I felt really furious and started having an attitude ( I really didn’t mean to but I just felt fed up with this) and things got heated and I got angry and told him that I hate feeling obligated to wakeup everyday to go to her house just to watch her give me instructions on how to cook!! And things just kept escalating and we got in a really big argument….and it was his birthday….

I know I am completely wrong for having this argument on a wrong day and that I ruined it for him completely and now he’s really upset and mad at me and won’t talk to me and actually left the house…

Is there any way I could fix it ? How can I make it up to him so I can at-least try and fix his birthday? The night before I made him kinda surprise party just the two of us and it was nice but know I fu*ked it up this morning :/ I could really use any advice on how to fix things with him

Update: omg I did not expect many people to actually reply to me lol!! I want to thank you all for leaving your advice and opinions, appreciated! We actually had a long conversation later that night and he explained he’s issues and I explained mine. I am from the middle east and I get that’s how the culture is and I really do not mind learning new things but when the situation is constant that’s what made me feel fed up. At first he was defensive saying that she just likes having us around them for dinner and I should appreciate it and she enjoys cooking for us and teaching me stuff and so but I explained it to him that I do love her but I need to feel like a wife taking care of the her house and husband so he told me that whenever I wanted to cook I would just say so and we wouldn’t have to go over her house and it was pretty understanding of him!