My husband didn’t defend me while i was practically being attacked and i can’t get over it

Sooo i may have an original experience here and some people may laugh at me 😞 but something happened a month ago and it starts to affect my relationship with my husband.

we were at a friends house for a barbecue with our children ( 9 and 6). i am the kind of person that always spends times and plays with the kids at get togethers like that and at a moment i was play wrestling with my 6 year old and our friends 5 year old when all of the sudden my friends older son that is 11 years old joined in and started wrestling me and he was being really rough and was hurting me .. i asked him to stop but he continued laughing at me and at a moment he had me in a headlock and i was almost crying and panicking .. that caught my husbands and the boys dad attention that started laughing at the situation… after a while he let me go and i was visibly upset but didn’t say anything at the moment as everyone was taking it as a joke ..

when we got home i told my husband how scary and violent it was and he laughed it off saying that he can’t believe a child could hurt me .. but this kid is almost as big as me and apparently stronger ..

since then i can’t seem to look at my husband the same way .. and when we have sex i feel almost disgusted .. is that weird ?