Would you leave your spouse over this?

My wife was gone on a work trip for a few days, and while she was gone, I found the following messages sent from an unsaved number after midnight on the Saturday she was gone on her iPad, which is linked to her iPhone:

Bartender: Hey it’s Jacob the bartender

Wife: Hey!

Bartender: Thanks for hanging out tonight it was nice talking to you all 😘

Wife: Room 321

Bartender: Do you want me to come up?


It seems like nothing physically may have happened, but there are two things I have a massive issue with:

  1. She gave her cell number to the bartender
  2. She gave the bartender her room number when he txt her

We’ve been married 10+ years. We have kids.

Would you leave your spouse over this?