[R19] content not catered to the male gaze?

Hi all!

When Manta started adding full versions I was fairly excited for some adult content. Although I'm familiar with spicy content, I had not read any manwhas/webtoons with adult content before and I've been extremely taken aback with how even though manwhas are aimed at women, all the spicy scenes are severely male oriented?

Of all the last series added to Manta all of them involve non-consent, focus on guaranteed pain, focus on tightness, penetration only, no/severely limited focus on female body/pleasure and no/severely limited genuine intimacy. Had it been only a few with a red flag ML (e.g. Tempest Night) I could've seen why (although I do have strong feelings about FL reacting positively to abusive intimacy) but I can't name one that even has a FL with realistic boundary setting. Maybe my age is talking here but I would like to read manwhas that actually focus on intimacy, bond building, mutual respect rather that this.

Does anyone have any recommendations for me? Thank you so much!