Can you REALLY fall in love…

after 10 DAYS!? Without seeing what someone looks like!? I always found it so strange and borderline cringey that they would say how much they love each other after a couple of episodes. I understand we don’t see all the time they spend with each other and everything they share but, damn. I also get that’s the whole point of the show, but what about the human psyche registers that “I love this person” after essentially talking to them on the phone for a few hours everyday. Am I the only one that thinks this is weird? Like okay, maybe a possibility when I was in my teens. But at their big ages!? That concept absolutely blows my mind. A big part about falling in love with someone is seeing who they truly are, not what they say or who they present as in their words, right?